[ "you can't disappoint me more than everyone else in my life has."

he does not say this, but he doesn't think he can be disappointed either way. it's the same pattern and he can't be too angry about this. rather, he listens patiently. ]

Anyone would be irritated after having their memories put on display like that. [ so that part, he imagines, wouldn't help. ] One of those things where you acted without being able to fully control how angry you were? How did you find her?